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The Anchor of Gratitude in Chaos
Chaos doesn't knock politely. It barges in, sometimes loud and sudden, sometimes slow and suffocating. It shows up in broken routines, in...
Tiki
Aug 242 min read
I Loved Once, and That Was Enough A letter from a widow’s heart—where love, grief, and silence hold hands in the dark.
I was supposed to go on a date tonight. He smiled like he was holding something fragile— and it was his heart. He said, “I’m afraid.” And...
Tiki
Aug 32 min read
The Bird Outside My Window (And the One in My Chest)
⸻ There’s this bird I keep seeing outside my apartment. He’s big. Male—you can tell by the way he stands, like he knows exactly who he...
Tiki
Jun 212 min read
Friendship, After the Fire
They say when the lava cools, the land it leaves behind is stronger. Richer. Ready to grow again. That’s how friendship feels after loss....
Tiki
May 252 min read
Where Grief Ends, I Begin
They never prepare you for what it means to date after you’ve already lost love in its most final form. After you’ve kissed goodbye to...
Tiki
May 182 min read
Unlearning What I Was Told
I grew up thinking the Kanaka Maoli flag was ours. I mean, that’s what I was told. Taught. Raised on. It was more than a flag— it was a...
Tiki
May 173 min read
Dear Me,
Happy Mother’s Day. You don’t hear that enough—not the way you deserve to hear it. Not after all the battles you’ve fought to show up...
Tiki
May 113 min read
Ten Years Ago....
Ten years ago, I became a mother— just me and my newborn baby, barely two or three months old. I was tired. I was scared. But I was also...
Tiki
May 42 min read
Learning to Stand Together Again
This isn't the first time I've watched someone I love pack a bag, lace their boots, and leave pieces of their heart behind with us - my...
Tiki
Apr 282 min read


The Personal Anchor
I used to think that if a friendship or relationship didn’t work out, it was because I did something wrong. Maybe I trusted too quickly....
Tiki
Apr 274 min read
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